WISDOM WILL ALWAYS PULL YOU; IT WILL NEVER PUSH YOU

When it comes to leaps of faith, things that call to you, that propel you, or that somehow pull you towards them seem to work out better than things you are pushing to make happen.

Wisdom will always pull you; it will never push you.

You need to let yourself feel the subtle difference between pushing for a result and being pulled to accomplish one.

Many of my clients have questions about this concept. How do you want something and yet not push for it? Does that mean you don’t go after it?

Does that mean you pretend you don’t want it?

Does that mean let the other person or parties make the first move?

The answer to these last three questions is a resounding “no”, and it doesn’t mean you should settle or sit in your room and visualise it into existence, either.

The way to get something without pushing for it is to take appropriate action, and at the same time, watch yourself to make sure you’re not trying too hard.

If you find yourself scheming, plotting or second-guessing yourself and everyone else, as well as attempting to manipulate a situation in your favour, you are pushing.

The energy it takes to push for a result chokes the faith out of any leap, and makes it hard, although not impossible, to get results.

It simply takes great effort and often there’s no sense of enjoyment in the doing.

It becomes difficult because of fear. You are afraid that you won’t ultimately lead your best life without this thing, so you try to manipulate your world to make it happen.

On the other hand, if you feel pulled by something or moved to passionately pursue something even against great odds and obstacles, keep going.

As long as you are not hurting yourself or anyone else in the process, it is wisdom prodding you, when you are pulled by something, it will usually be something that has a greater purpose than your own material satisfaction.

Even if it is not, it most likely allows for the kind of personal fulfillment that is in itself a great contribution to your world. Often, taking a stand for the better part of yourself – or for something that serves more than your purposes – allows for the magical results that defy explanation.

The leap of faith is rewarded.

A leap of faith requires not knowing what the result will be. It is a dance.

The perfect dance partner doesn’t step on their partner’s toes. If your partner is attempting to control you instead of lead you, they will definitely make it an erratic dance. The perfect dance partner stands awaiting the cue and responding in an imperceptible second. That is the dance of pull. You need to be the ideal partner.

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