So far in this section, we’ve explored the conditions that repel and attract, the impact of energy exchanges in your life and how the unacceptable can be an obstacle to your ultimate conductivity.

It’s now time to examine what will fuel your magnetic ability the most: identifying the ideal for every part of your life.

When you explore what is ideal, what you really want, you can accelerate the rate at which you attract results.

The ideal is the best-case scenario, the dream, the wish, the best circumstances you can imagine.

The ideal is an inspiring vision and direction motivated from within.

Your ideal doesn’t have to be heady or grandiose either.

It can be used in everyday, practical terms. For example, what is your ideal work schedule, who is your ideal baby sitter, what is your ideal job description, or who is your ideal lawyer or bookkeeper?

Notice I did not use the word ‘perfect’, which is not that same thing as ‘ideal’.

Perfection tends to be rigid.

When we look for the ideal, we may have perfection as a goal but we retain enough flexibility to find something different, perhaps even better, that we may not have anticipated.

In my opinion, being a perfectionist is the ultimate lack of self-acceptance, in that we need the outside world to reflect perfection so that we can know we are okay.

That is why perfectionism can be so rigid and so damaging and why the search for perfection will repel instead of attract.

The ideal attracts because it’s meant to be a receptacle to contain your dream.

Think of it like a pitcher holding water.

If we don’t allow the water to be kept in a container, it could run off, dry up, disperse or evaporate.

Similarly, without something to catch them, our dreams for ourselves can disappear or we can lose track of them.

When you hold the vision of an ideal scenario for some part of your life, you have created criteria by which to measure your present circumstances and those that show up as your work towards living your best life.

Sometimes we have an ideal situation in mind and we will surpass that ideal.

Other times, what we thought was ideal is not so when we attain it.

Regardless, having the picture allows you to follow your own wisdom.

Lets create your ideal scenario! Download the attached activity and watch the training in the next lesson and let’s take a deep dive!